How far is too far for a bachelor(rette) party? Are their rules? Let's discuss it!

[Keisha Pickett]

What are some no-no's a fiance should go by on their last time out? How far is too far?

[Skyline Limousine]

well,i could express how far both parties go,but being a Chauffeur would be giving private information,but i
will say this Ladies do you know -what to far is?

[Jay Que]

No-no #1, don't a bachelorette party. It is sooooo gay. LOL. But a good ole fashioned bachelor party is uhhh, entertaining. Yes, double standards exists in life. LOL

[C.A.]

There are no limits for a bachelorette party. This is the last time the woman will be single. Today women are more independent and self sufficient. We are making as much or in some cases even more money then men so why not be able to do exactly what we want when we want. Men have been enjoying themseleves for centuries now it is our turn.

I gave a bachelorette party and the ladies who attended are still talking about it. That was over 4 yrs ago, On the invite I advised that this was not your mother's bachelorette party. Only 2 women were not allowed to attend by their husbands or boyfriends. How insecure in their manhood was that?

[bzegirl]

Asking how much is "too far" is subjective. Too far for one person may be normal for another. The bachelorette party is all about who the woman is in terms of her friends, her decorum and what she considers fun. having a stripper may be in the realm of what one woman may consider fun while another woman would prefer a more toned-down activitiy i.e. a spa retreat of pampering or some other more non-traditional activities.

If couples view marriage as restrictive then they're setting themselves up for failure. Why view a bachelor party or bachelorette party as the last time you're single to go wild. What happens the next day? will your need for wildness diminish just because there's a ring on your finger? Cho. I say be who you are across the board and conduct yourself as such.

[Sherrie]

This is a really good question, and you know what? I’m going to be honest, I really don't think a party for your "last night out is needed" :) Think about it, do we really know how many men and women make detrimental mistakes just by thinking they need one last night out.

I would rather celebrate the fact that I have made a huge life changing decision while praying that he is "the one". It's not like the nasty habits you had prior to marriage are just going to disappear because you now have one "last night" to get all the dirty thoughts out of your head lol It takes time and prayer, think outside the box and enjoy your last night celebrating not being single and having been blessed...

Why not choose an activity in which both parties can enjoy each other with friends, better yet, married friends?